Frequently asked questions
Everything you may want to know before you begin.
- Is EverVows only for marriage-minded members?
- Yes. EverVows is not a dating app. Every member joins with the intention of pursuing a God-centered, covenant marriage. Casual browsing is discouraged and casual conduct is moderated.
- How does profile verification work?
- After you complete your profile and upload 1 to 3 photos, your profile enters a pending review queue. A member of our team reviews it by hand, usually within 24 to 48 hours. Once approved, your profile becomes visible in search.
- Can someone message me out of the blue?
- No. A member must first send you a connection request. Only when you accept does a conversation thread open. You may decline any request without explanation.
- Why are photos blurred?
- Photo privacy is on by default so you are known first by your faith and character. Your photo is revealed once a connection request is accepted by both members.
- What is anonymous mode?
- Anonymous mode hides your profile from general search. You remain visible only to members you contact directly, which is helpful for members in small congregations or public ministry.
- Who is Pastor Grace?
- Pastor Grace is our AI faith coach: a warm, Biblically grounded guide for questions about courtship, boundaries, family involvement and covenant marriage. She responds in English or Spanish and is never a substitute for your own pastor.
- How is the Faith Compatibility Score calculated?
- It weighs shared convictions: denomination alignment, faith level, church attendance and ministry involvement, family values and lifestyle, and your stated partner criteria. Premium members see the score on every profile.
- Are messages monitored?
- Every message is screened before delivery. Disrespectful or sexually explicit content is blocked instantly and flagged for admin review. Repeat violations lead to suspension.
- Is the platform available in Spanish?
- Yes. EverVows is fully bilingual. You can switch between English and Español from any page, and Scripture and coaching appear in your chosen language.
- What does Premium cost?
- Premium is $9.99 per month, or the annual plan at a 20% discount. Payment is processed securely by Stripe in USD, and you can cancel anytime.